"Many people will tell you trust. That's kind of counter productive in a weird way because that means you are assuming your S.O. has the desire to do something you don't approve of, and you are just trusting them not to displease you. Psychologically, this creates problems. I'm not saying trust isn't important, but trust is something you apply to, 'Don't eat the last cupcake,' not fidelity."
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