'Sex, Lies, And Videotapes'
Before we go any further, I'd just like to point out this is the third film on this list that stars James Spader. Something to think about, no? In this one, Spader plays Graham who's impotent and can only get aroused by watching videos of women confessing to lies they've told, their sexual experiences, and other details. It's not so much a fetish as a necessity. It's the dialogue and confessions that are the sexiest part of this film, as well as Spader's classic '80s hair do.