After you’ve been with the same partner for awhile, your sex life might need a little kick in the butt. This isn’t to suggest that your sex life is lacking at all, but if spice is the variety of life, don’t you owe it to your partner and yourself to, perhaps, leap out of your comfort zone and try something new? Yes. But getting a little spicy, doesn’t mean you need to get crazy and join the nearest swingers’ club. What it does mean is making a few little changes. Here’s how to do just that, even if you’re a bit a scared.